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Terrilynn, somehow I missed the post you referenced (undone) and I didn't know about the breakup. I am sorry. My daughter went through something where her husband was absent (not physically, but every other way) and he was not a good father for their children. I hope that Liam's dad will get the help he needs and get to a point where he can be a good dad. And I hope you will be okay.


I regret that I have no words of advice, but I can offer many warm cyber-hugs and wishes for things to feel good and right for you soon.


we're here ....


Terrilynn, I am so sorry about what you are going through. I know I can't say anything to help but I can say that you are a warm wonderful mother and person....at least that is what comes through in your blog. Your little boy is going to be okay because he has so much love and support.
I wish good things for you. Really, really good things for you and your son. You will be okay, you seem very strong. And I hope one day your true love shows up at your door!


Terrilynn - I'm really sorry to hear about your separation. It does sound like it will be for the best in the long run, but the short run may be a bit of a bitch. Good luck with all of it. I've gone thru a divorce, too, and it's not fun, but it was so much better for all of us in the end that I don't have a single regret.


As one who did end a first marriage, I can only say it was the best thing I could have done and what came after the trial of my life was the reward of it, my true husband, Joe.

Thinking of you and your son.


TL - we've talked behind the scenes, so you know already how I feel. But I have to go on the record here to give you major props for handling this with so much grace and dignity while staying true to your own needs and desires.

It's not an easy feat to pull off; the fact that you can be so scarily articulate about it while right in the middle of all the drama speaks eloquently to your inner strength and strong sense of self, along with your desire to do right by your child.

You're already headed to a better place. I promise.


T-L, my friend -

I'm so sorry you have to go through this. I've been thinking a lot about you for some reason lately and just decided to check your blog tonight...I'm here if you need me.

Here's a kiss for you and your sweet boy...



Of course from your posts we saw this coming, but I'm so sorry that I took a hiatus from the blogging world and haven't been around to give you my support. I hope things get easier from here for you and for Liam.


I'm sorry, even if it has been a long time coming. I hope you all come out on the other side much happier and more ready to enjoy life.

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